How shall i get over that...?

my husband and i have been married for 1 year now and he has been gradually losing respect, he calls me names is undermining me and i dont feel the love anymore that brought us together, we had so many talk where at the end i always ended up being the reason for all negative in our relationship. it hurts me allot and crushes me down, the problem is that we have a little baby 6moths now, and i am not american still waiting for my citizenship, so i cant divorce him , otherwise i will lose my baby, he always tells me he doesn't need me and there are other women out there replacing me. and that he'll send me home and keep the child and i would never hear from him again. i just dont kn now what to do, i'm already seeking for therapies since he made me believe i'm the one needing a psychotherapies.how can i deal with it so it'll not get to me that much.